Men, when they cry

Ever seen a man cry?? I’ve been witness to a few and I find it really difficult to… er... manage it.

I find it hard to stand a women cry. Instead of consoling and comforting her I become the one in need of pacification. I mean it would be very odd if I yell at some one who’d need of compassion, just coz I can't stand anyone crying. It takes a lot of composure from me to be able to stand there, pacify and be able to hand out a tissue without losing my temper.

But I must admit that SRK pulls it off very well. I was watching Kal Ho Na Ho again yesterday and I couldn’t stop myself from admiring him at the expression he’d put up at the phone booth, in the black shirt with moist eyes. It’s fine as long as it’s in mild dosages. Aamir also couldn’t hold back his tears in Rang De Basanti. I understand that there are certain situations where you go hopelessly helpless. Many a times it’s only tears that manage to vent the emotion.

Another observation that I made is mostly men in love tend to shed tears. This is purely my observation. Again an example, Aryan Vaid, evicted from Big Boss’s house couldn't hold back his tears despite the try. Poor chap. My heart went out to him when I saw him crying on screen. That looked no bit rehearsed. Those were tears for real. He couldn’t help them but flow. He’s in love for the first time, it seemed so.

Guys... guys… this is for you

The one who makes you cry is not worth your tears;

The one who is worth your tears would never make you cry.