Friday, December 23, 2005
Missing Someone
I read this post on Missing someone. And it made me think; think about why we miss some one, especially those whom we have gotten used to. Why do we get used to only some people and not all? I for one do not like to get emotionally attached to anyone. I'm a coward, if that is how you'll see me now. I fear parting, I fear that if I get attached to someone I will probably not be able to let go of them. I am very possessive about people I love. I don't say I hold them tight and keep them to myself. But it hurts, na... it pinches, a li'l harder than usual when it is time to let them go. But I have learnt to balance myself each time I stumble.
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There is the fear of getting too attached, of your caring not being reciprocated, of being laughed at, of being rejected. But well...if you feel it, why deny it?
Been reading the rest of your posts too. Please keep writing. It is cathartic for you and for others who read, it gives a feeling of "Ah, someone else feels it too!"
There was time when I felt the same way. But in time we conquer our fears and letting go might not be that hard. Nothing is permanent and nobody is indispensable. As the only thing that is permanent is Change. Everything has a limited time frame so learn to live for the moment. Enjoy it without thinking of the future. I believe its expectations that lead to disappointments. So give without expecting anything in return. That’s the key to happiness.
ideasmith: thanks for dropping in. It sure feels good to know I'm not the only one. That was what I felt when I was at your blog.
CBnM: It is going to take some time for me to learn to conquer this fear of mine. But I shall, some day soon.
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