Monday, December 26, 2005

I Hate this...

What do guys think about them selves’ haan?? They can fool around with a girl; make statements like 'Yeah! I love you... say 98% (utter rubbish, percentage in love?? What non-sense?? You either love someone or you don't.) But the remaining 2% confidence you don't give me.' And the moment they are bored with the girl, back off saying 'I still love you, but you failed to gimme the 2% confidence.' Excuse me!! I don't take such non-sense. And I shall not bear guys fooling around with my friends. And even girls act dumb at times, rather most of the times. Come on galz!! You have a brain as well, not just a heart. At times let the brain take decisions for you. I know, now there'll be many to say 'You don't understand.' Hell with the understanding. Why don't you understand that you are not playthings? You love him, fine. Let him respect your feelings but not trample it with his feet right in front of you and you stand helpless. You are not helpless. You are never helpless and you will never be.
I do not trust guys. I have never and guess I shall never be able to. Somebody, rather a friend, once told me that this was a sexist remark and that any guy could take offence. Well... I don't care.
I don't say I trust all the girls. But yes I sure can risk trusting a girl. I have quite a number of male friends. They have all been good to me. And I guess that is because I maintain a certain distance from them. If I were to take liberty to get to know them closely, I dunno why but I'm sure, I'd be disappointed even by them. I know I shouldn't be making generalized statements but...

7 comments:

Caffeinism said...

Girls should really try to take realtionships with a tinge of salt.Everything does not always stay beautiful and perfect.The realty crashes in almost all the times just when you are on a all time high.

Seema said...

I believe it's the same for guys as well. We girls aren't any better. I do know of stories the other way. I got a little carried away as my close friend is affected because of this incident.

Caffeinism said...

that is also true....Girls/Guys alike..I said girls bcos your post was about them:-))

Neel Arurkar said...

Not all guys are like that. Take me for example :-)

Seema said...

Take you as example for what?

Neel Arurkar said...

"I do not trust guys" : Example of someone who can be trusted

Seema said...

Well... I do have my brothers for examples. That was what made me add 'I shouldn't generalize'. But if u insist I consider you among them, I shall.