Or 'I thought I'd lost your friendship.' or even 'I thought I'd lost your love.' These are statements made at very emotional instances. But they seem like one of the most ridiculously stupid statements to me. I haven't found many people using it genuinely.
How can you lose something that you never held? I mean… I was never your friend or anything you claim. I wish to deny you to be my acquaintance even. So… what have you lost?
May be I have used similar statement, I don’t remember though, but I will never have meant it. I can never mean it either coz I never bother to posses anyone. There are a very few people I hold close to my heart. And on losing them it wouldn’t just be my heart that would be broken, but all of me will crumble. Scary thought.
Anyways, I got this thought after reading a post on Caffeine’s blog. How is it going to make a difference in your life if someone you are least interested in is missing you? When you know you mean nothing to the other person then why do you have to waste your time and brains trying to gain attention? Anything gained by force will not be able to make you happy or even give you the peace of mind that you are looking for.
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I could not agree more.Say you like or want to talk someone but the other person is not interested how can u persist in trying to talk etc with them.I for one cannot do that.It makes a man more of a man or a woman more of a woman if can let go.
Wish the others also could understand this.
Ah! Some sense at the bottom of the lake :)))
But as they say - dive deep to collect the pearls of wisdom... seems i dived deep enough to see the musing heart talk something that seemed practical :))
seems like yesterday - i was at the same cross roads... but moving on and closing the doors of the past for sure does, believe me, make a lot of sense...
you need not fall in love again... be single, realise and accept that THIS is THAT independant stage of your life which isnt going to be back once you find THAT someone... make new friends... go out with them, hang out till u are tired enough to come back and drop dead in the bed... refuse to think about how unfortunate u have been love, instead tell yourself how fortunate THAT person is gonna be who will eventually possess such a dear angel capable of loving so truly,deeply,madly...
Rock baby!
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