Tagged!!

I've have been tagged. for the first time. And look what I'm asked to do... tell u guys my definition. Of what?? 'Perfect lover', in 8 points.
I have read blogs where people had to write a story in 50 words or so. or about a post of theirs which is numbered say 23. Wouldn't mind being tagged with such things but tag about 'Perfect lover'!! Something that I had never thought about all these days. Well…. each time this question was put up by parents and friends, "What kind of guy are you looking for?" I'd answer, "Dunno!!". And to ward of the '?' on their face I'd add, "Not to bother, I'll know when I see him."
Well... everything has a certain time for itself to happen. And now is the time for me to finally answer this question. I took two extensive days to think it up. (Two days coz I had been to Chennai to attend my friends wedding. There'll be another post all about the Iyyer wedding, a li'l later. Seated on the upper berth of the train last night I composed the 8 points.)

About the tag ....
The rules first
1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention the sex of the target.
3. Tag another 8 victims to join this game and leave a comment on their comments saying they have been tagged.

For the 8 points...
(Initially I thought I'd go to blogs tagged earlier and pick points from there. Rule doesn't say that copying is not allowed ;))

1. Needless to say Understanding, trustworthy, be good listener when I need someone to talk to, Of course, pamper me at times etc etc...

2. One with a good sense of Humor. Someone witty. Ummm... an Intellect, I'm more of a listener. So he better be someone whose talk is engaging. Someone who'd be able to talk about anything and everything.

3. One with a liking for children. I have seen many people play with kids as long as the child is laughing n playing. Once it starts wailing, it is handed out to the mother. I want him to be able to pacify a crying baby. Not every time, but at least most of the times.

4. Oh yes!! How could I forget such an important point? "He should love pets" :)

5. He should try and understand words that are spoken. And if possible those that remain unspoken as well.

6. I have found people who do things and act coz that is what is expected out of them. Try to please people. At times even I do this. But I have started loathing this attitude in me lately. I don't want him to have this trait. He should not be hesitant in doing things that he likes. IMO, "If you believe what you are doing is right then it must be", so do what your heart says.

7. Someone with varied interests in life. An enthusiast who'd not mind trying new things, experimenting with life. Who lives life as though today is his only day.

8. Most of all Love me :)

Well... end of my wish list of just 8 points.

Hmmm.. Sex of the target.. you still want it put explicitly?? Ok!! that's my Man

Now the last part of it. The new Victims are... CBnM, Smithy, Shubh, Couch Potato.