Dilemma

Last weekend I met this guy, the arranged marriage ways. He had come home with his parents. So... we met, we spoke. I liked the way he talked. I kinda like him. But haven't yet felt 'this is the guy I wanna spend my life with'. He's basically a nice guy, but there always is 'but' in my thoughts about him. This holds me from coming to conclusions.
There is another thing that holds me back from taking a decision. There is this guy I like. I won't say love coz I'm not sure yet. Again not sure coz there is a 'but' when I think about him too. This 'but' is mainly coz I do not know how and what he feels for me. I know he likes me, that I am sure of. But... would he wanna marry me? Would my parents accept him? Would he be the 'right' man for me? I'm in a dilemma not knowing how to proceed.

Is it so easy fool people? My friends read my mind by looking at my face. I lie to them and they accept it. I don't actually lie, I just hide some facts, tell out some. And what I tell is quite convincing. I'm happy to know that it isn't easy to peep into my heart. At the same time it bothers me that no one might ever know what's in my mind. There are times when I don't feel like telling things out explicitly but wish that the person in front understands and responds. Is feeling so wrong? Am I the only one who has such weird feelings?